Thinking Positive: The best way to avoid life disasters


First, let me tell you background of this story. It was a start of a new year. Appraisals and Promotions are being discussed everywhere in the company I work for. I was happy. There was nothing stressful in my life. I used to do another part-time job to increase my monthly budget so that I could live easily.

And then one day, probably Monday, I woke up. I finished my chores and started getting ready to go to work. On my way to work, I got an accident. I was injured and I got depressed because of that accident. Although it was not so worse but it still made me think negative about some days ahead. I reached office. I was there and then , someone from the place where I work part-time, called me and told me that my services are no longer required by them. It made me more depressed. I was getting negative thoughts regarding my future days. Then, after some time , my senior at work told me that appraisals are not being sent due to some issue. May be, the company will not send it this year. I was shocked when I heard that. I was under so much pressure. I became pessimist. Anyhow, whatever I did that day, turned bad for me.

I came back home. I finished everything and went to bed. I lied down. Then I started thinking about what happened today. I realized something. Something that made my eyes open. I analyzed the whole situation and the conclusion that I got was so helpful ( I will tell you later , how?). All that bad things that happened today was because my thoughts became negative. My mind was not thinking positive. When I first got depressed, it attracted negative vibe and then, that negative vibe attracted more negative energy and the second bad incident happened and it went on.

After realizing that my thinking became so negative, I closed my eyes. I imagined that my brain was rusted. In my imagination , I started cleaning my brain . I cleaned and cleaned until all the rust went off. And then I started imagining the positive outcome of every situation.

The very next day , I started my day in normal routine. When I got back to office, they told me that appraisals are on their way. I found an alternative for my part-time job. And I recovered from the injuries faster than expected. In short, everything went right.

The conclusion here is that the life treats you as how you think it will. Positive thinking can really make you live in peace. The mission should not be “to survive”. The mission should be “to live”. Don’t let a bad incident or a bad thought carry you away. Even if something worse happens, just relax. Calm down. There is still something positive in it. Think about it. Block all the dark energies. Do not let them prevail you.

Life is peaceful

Note: Stories and thoughts like this are my own experiences and analysis. 

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Get Success: A Tip for You


Whenever you want to achieve something, you face hurdles. If you hesitate in facing them, you will probably be not achieving your goal. There are certain factors that you will have to consider while achieving your goal.

One of the main factors is FEAR. Fear lets you get far away from your goal. You can’t achieve them with a fear in your mind. Get that fear out. Leave everything behind and try to reach your goal with as much effort as you can do.

Another main factor is the people. When you try to achieve your goal. There are people standing at every point criticizing you, teasing you and trying to make you aimless.

Churchill – A great Man

So, All you have to do is ignore them. People keep interfering in your life and you don’t have to answer all of that crap. Focus on what you want not what people say. If you ask those people to help you out, they will not do that because they are there only to disappoint you.

After all, it is your life. At the end, it is you who is going to get the fruit.

Tension: Go Away!


Today, in this world, everyone seems quite busy in doing a lot of work. A man is so much busy now a day that he don’t have a proper time to take care of himself. The continuous struggle for the job generates a lot of problems(that are not only job related). These problems creates a tension in a person’s mind and he might start feeling frustrated and unhappy.

Tension: Cause of being unsuccessful

How to get rid of it? There are many people looking for answers to this question. Let me tell you some tips that can help you in getting rid of it.

Well, you just need a little time for this:

-Find a silent place- Go and find a place where there’s silence everywhere. If you can go to a place where there’s greenery around you and you can clearly see sky when you face up, it’s perfect. If you have done this and you’re alone completely, you have completed almost 50% of the total procedure.

-Close your eyes- You should close your eyes or if you feel more comfortable by watching greenery around you or a blue sky on your head, it would be good, too.

-Get bad Thoughts out- This is another major step. Know what is coming in your mind and if it’s negative, imagine that you are throwing them out of your mind.

-Try to remember happy moments- Try to remember any happy moments that has been passed. Get involved in them.  Try to imagine what makes you happy whether it’s someone special or a scene of nature.

Breath Deeply- Breath, not using your chest. Try to breath in and out from your belly. When you breath in, open your mouth and inhale completely. When you breath out, close your mouth and let your nose do the work.

Stay like this for a few minutes- You should stay like this for a few minutes, may be 10 or 15.

-Get yourself out of it- Come back to your real world. Smile for no reason and you will realize that you’re feeling much lighter.

-Start thinking what good you can do next- Start thinking when you’ll get up from this place and you’ll go back to your destination, what good things are you going to do? Here, Good Things mean those that will let you enjoy.

Just by following these simple steps, you can get rid of your tensions and you can be normal again. I have experienced it. It worked.

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