Thinking Positive: The best way to avoid life disasters


First, let me tell you background of this story. It was a start of a new year. Appraisals and Promotions are being discussed everywhere in the company I work for. I was happy. There was nothing stressful in my life. I used to do another part-time job to increase my monthly budget so that I could live easily.

And then one day, probably Monday, I woke up. I finished my chores and started getting ready to go to work. On my way to work, I got an accident. I was injured and I got depressed because of that accident. Although it was not so worse but it still made me think negative about some days ahead. I reached office. I was there and then , someone from the place where I work part-time, called me and told me that my services are no longer required by them. It made me more depressed. I was getting negative thoughts regarding my future days. Then, after some time , my senior at work told me that appraisals are not being sent due to some issue. May be, the company will not send it this year. I was shocked when I heard that. I was under so much pressure. I became pessimist. Anyhow, whatever I did that day, turned bad for me.

I came back home. I finished everything and went to bed. I lied down. Then I started thinking about what happened today. I realized something. Something that made my eyes open. I analyzed the whole situation and the conclusion that I got was so helpful ( I will tell you later , how?). All that bad things that happened today was because my thoughts became negative. My mind was not thinking positive. When I first got depressed, it attracted negative vibe and then, that negative vibe attracted more negative energy and the second bad incident happened and it went on.

After realizing that my thinking became so negative, I closed my eyes. I imagined that my brain was rusted. In my imagination , I started cleaning my brain . I cleaned and cleaned until all the rust went off. And then I started imagining the positive outcome of every situation.

The very next day , I started my day in normal routine. When I got back to office, they told me that appraisals are on their way. I found an alternative for my part-time job. And I recovered from the injuries faster than expected. In short, everything went right.

The conclusion here is that the life treats you as how you think it will. Positive thinking can really make you live in peace. The mission should not be “to survive”. The mission should be “to live”. Don’t let a bad incident or a bad thought carry you away. Even if something worse happens, just relax. Calm down. There is still something positive in it. Think about it. Block all the dark energies. Do not let them prevail you.

Life is peaceful

Note: Stories and thoughts like this are my own experiences and analysis. 

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Pakistan: Other than Terrorism


Pakistan, today is known as the country involved in Terrorism. Today, we are lost so much in this that we don’t see what other stuff this country has for the rest of the world.

Terrorism was at its peak few years back but after some military operations, it is limited to some areas in Pakistan. These areas are still dangerous for the foreigners and they must not visit these places.

Let me tell you some other places that you’d like to visit in Pakistan.

Lahore, the capital city of Punjab, is one of the most beautiful places in Pakistan. It totally represents Pakistani culture and there are some great buildings that are worth-seeing.

Badshahi Mosque, built hundred of years ago, is still there and you really want to visit it. In it, there are many things  that relates to the old Royal customs. Those are still present there and saved for the visitors to see. The internal structure is very much well designed. You’ll enjoy your visit.

Badshahi Mosque: External View

And for sure, you need a hotel to stay in and visit places. Well, there are all kinds of hotels in Lahore. If you love luxury, Pearl Continental and Awari Hotel are there to fulfill your need. And if you are looking for an International Chain, you are most welcomed to Holiday Inn.

Holiday Inn, Lahore

Mall Road is another beautiful place. And the list goes on.

You can visit Islamabad, the capital of Pakistan. With beautiful views, this city should be in a must-visit list for all the visitors. Places like Faisal Mosque and Margalla Hills are very beautiful and you’ll enjoy your visit.

Islamabad: The Capital

How about a pic of Margalla Hills?

Margalla Hills

Well, How about some natural mountain views? Do you want them? Do you want a complete natural beauty?

You should visit Naraan and Kaghaan for this. These are one of the most beautiful Nature-blessed places of the world

Naran View

And the locations like these totally makes you feel wonderful and fresh. Whatever advancements we make, we can’t deny the fact that Nature is the best and will always be.

As the scenes are concerned, I told you some of the best places here in Pakistan. But, these are not all. You will surely enjoy your visit to Pakistan. Once you get here, there is a lot more to see.

Pakistan is also very good at exporting many things. I will discuss that some other time. Let us know if you liked this post.

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Tension: Go Away!


Today, in this world, everyone seems quite busy in doing a lot of work. A man is so much busy now a day that he don’t have a proper time to take care of himself. The continuous struggle for the job generates a lot of problems(that are not only job related). These problems creates a tension in a person’s mind and he might start feeling frustrated and unhappy.

Tension: Cause of being unsuccessful

How to get rid of it? There are many people looking for answers to this question. Let me tell you some tips that can help you in getting rid of it.

Well, you just need a little time for this:

-Find a silent place- Go and find a place where there’s silence everywhere. If you can go to a place where there’s greenery around you and you can clearly see sky when you face up, it’s perfect. If you have done this and you’re alone completely, you have completed almost 50% of the total procedure.

-Close your eyes- You should close your eyes or if you feel more comfortable by watching greenery around you or a blue sky on your head, it would be good, too.

-Get bad Thoughts out- This is another major step. Know what is coming in your mind and if it’s negative, imagine that you are throwing them out of your mind.

-Try to remember happy moments- Try to remember any happy moments that has been passed. Get involved in them.  Try to imagine what makes you happy whether it’s someone special or a scene of nature.

Breath Deeply- Breath, not using your chest. Try to breath in and out from your belly. When you breath in, open your mouth and inhale completely. When you breath out, close your mouth and let your nose do the work.

Stay like this for a few minutes- You should stay like this for a few minutes, may be 10 or 15.

-Get yourself out of it- Come back to your real world. Smile for no reason and you will realize that you’re feeling much lighter.

-Start thinking what good you can do next- Start thinking when you’ll get up from this place and you’ll go back to your destination, what good things are you going to do? Here, Good Things mean those that will let you enjoy.

Just by following these simple steps, you can get rid of your tensions and you can be normal again. I have experienced it. It worked.

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Be Who You Are


I have seen many people trying to copy what others do and they think they will get fame and followers like the-person-they-followed have. Well, that is not the case. You might get some followers. But, the truth is *You will always be what you actually are*.

I am what I am

The world already knows the personality you are following. Be someone the world follows not someone the followed. There may be some criticism on your personality but don’t forget the person, who have gained fame and won hearts of millions had, at some time, also faced such criticism.

The world won’t spare you. It will keep on giving you negative as well as positive expressions. It’s you who can change the way they think about you. If someone hates you, don’t let him/her hate you for all the time. This hatred has resulted in some fights and in fact, 2 world wars. What is hatred?

We all are humans. Some may be bad and some of them are good. But, what if you treat bad as good? What if you always cheers everyone when one has done some good stuff? Will it promote hatred? Never! If we all starts cheering everyone in a positive way, the things can get better. Yes! Believe me! Things can get a lot better.

 

 

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A Happy Relationship


When it’s about relationship, there are several things that should be kept in mind from both sides.

A real Relationship

Relationships need several things

Relationships are not as easy to handle as it seems. However, I have gathered some points that will lead you to a successful relationship(I hope so):

-First and foremost, Don’t take any decisions when you’re having mood swings. Calm down, relax, let you and your partner be in a calm state and than think: Were we doing the right thing?

-Keep your partner as happy as you can- When it comes to a man, he should care for his partner as much as he can. Try to not let her feel alone. Let her feel that there’s always someone that will be there who can hold my hand. For a girl, she should do the same. Try to note the time when her partner comes back. Both of you don’t know how much your partner has suffered during his/her job time. Let your partner feel like he/she is in paradise when he/she comes home.

-When there is a fight, one should need to stop. Don’t think of what’s happening right now? Think of the time and moments that you have spent together. They were awesome and fantastic. In this way, you’ll get rid of your anger and when your partner calms down, he/she will soon realize that it was a wrong thing that he/she did. Stepping down in such a moment will really boost love between you too.

-Know your partners value- It happens when you are in a relationship, you start feeling irritated from your partner. At that time, don’t let wrong thoughts dominate you. Think of how your partner cared for you. Think what is changed that has result into this. When you find out, call your partner with love and let him/her know what is happening with you. The more late you tell, the more worse things are going to get.

I hope these steps will work and you will be able to get your relationship back in a smooth curve. Best wishes for loved ones.