Child Abuse – A sad Fact of Today’s Society

This world, the earth, contains much more population than it ever had since it came into being. Today, around 7 billion of us are here, feeding ourselves and trying to live a peaceful and healthy life. This has been the major concern of us, as a human being. However, some of us follow a different agenda.

Out of 7 billion people alive, everyone has a different definition of being normal, and sometimes, this definition crosses the humane boundaries that has been created by most of the religion and human rights laws.

Child Abuse is something that almost every country in the world is suffering from. A kid, merely 7-8 years old, who does not have any vivid knowledge of his/her surroundings, is forced to indulge in some inhumane acts. Such acts terrify this society, nature and make us wonder if we are the right ones to rule this planet.

Physical Child Abuse, is one of the most terrible things that is happening in this day of modernism. A child, in that age, when he is supposed to learn about the world, have knowledge about science and to get to know that how this society really works, is forced to work. They are working in such jobs, where a proper conscious and sensible adult himself, will think about million times before signing up for it.

Sexual Child Abuse, being the most barbaric act, is there, no matter how much you try to deny this fact. There are many people coming in daily news (and being mostly ignored by us like the rest of the news), who have tried to find pleasure by raping these little angels, to complete their atrocious desires. In some cases, such kids have been kidnapped, raped and murdered, in such an age, when these kids are supposed to enjoy those little roller coaster rides, have that breakfast, and go to school like rest of them.

Children, facing these issues, are threatened to stay quiet or else they will be murdered.
How a small mind can know what is the way of getting rid of it? He is just afraid and being mentally, physically and psychologically abused by such barbaric culprits.

We, as a community, should keep our children aware of such incidents. There should be some training institutes where all the tactics of handling such situations must be taught. The most loved person in our family, should be treated as a King/Queen and not as a slave by anyone.

The question that I want to leave for all of you is that:

Why is there not a single international law for such barbaric crimes that are a disgrace for humanity? If there is, why is it not being implemented?

Do such people deserve few years in jail who have raped an innocent soul? Or should there be a punishment that spread fear in people who are willing to do it?

 

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How to survive after a breakup?

It was a very good day for you when he/she started talking to you. And things went forward and then there came a day when you guys got together. Spending the moments with the one you have feelings for is definitely worth it. But sometimes,  there comes a time when that special someone leaves you, leaving behind nothing but agony and pain that starts haunting you for days, months or even years. But that’s not the end of it.

According to human behavior analysis, every human being reacts differently after having a breakup. Some find it quite easy and they move on with no complexities surrounding them. This does not mean that they didn’t love you. It just means that this is their way of tackling the situation. While some of us feels like the world has fallen apart. Everything everyone does around you will irritate you and you will feel no merriment. You’d feel like the world has ended for you and nothing is ever going to be better again. But this is not the case. You can make yourself feel better by following some of the useful tips that I will provide you.

1:Delete his/her pictures/videos at once

This seems like kind of a big deal. You might be thinking like “All I have left are these memories of his/her. How can I delete them”. Well, this is the very first step to take. Because after a break up, a person’s mind is still very much attracted to the person who is not here. Seeing those pictures will bring your memory back at once and when they are in the active part of your brain, you cannot get out of the Misery-net.

It might be hard to believe. but it’s the fact that the next person has decided to move on so you should to. There are a lot of things that your future holds for you. So, take a step and delete them at once. Recalling no “together” memories will keep your mind in peace.

2: Stop Watching Dramas containing depressing Stories

Let me put it in this way. if you keep filling the jug with water if it’s already full, the water will spill out. Same is the case in here. Watching dramas or movies that contain depressing stories will just add the things up to your misery. You should avoid them.

3: Stop listening to Sad Music

It will affect you same as watching depressed dramas and movies. Just stop listening to them. Instead try to listen a bit hip hop and the music that might make you feel like you have to shake your booty. I know this is what you don’t want right now and many people won’t be doing it due to lack of control on them but you should because this is your way out.

4: Keep yourself Busy

This is one of the best things to do. Staying busy has proved to be very helpful in such conditions. It helps you distract your mind and keeping yourself busy can get you away from all that time that won’t help you be better.

5: You control yourself

You should always remember that the thing that you have in your head is OWNED by you and in case you’re wondering, it’s called “Brain”. You should know that in the end, it’s you who is dealing with it and it’s you who can get you out of it. People around you can help you feel better but it totally depends on you whether you let the happiness prevail you or not.

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Welcome to Pakistan!

A dream! A Theory! An Ideology! A Pakistan! The home of millions of people filled with best natural resources, four seasons and beautiful scenery. Yes! I am talking about Pakistan.

Pakistan Independence Day

When it comes to Pakistan, every finger is rising up to humiliate this country. This is no hidden truth. Aside from this fact, almost every superpower wants to get hold of it. This country is blessed by so many natural resources that aren’t being utilized to its full.
Yes, India has a history. India has ancient stories. Don’t forget, Pakistan shares that history and stories as well.

A Nightview of Mall Road, Lahore

Let’s talk about Lahore, the city with full of thrills. If you want to eat something even after midnight, you’ll find your way more easily than any other city. Couple of Parks, greenery, and a great atmosphere has turned this city unique. Talking about ancient Lahore, there are still buildings built in Kings’ era. They are valued, visited and praised every day.
However, the increasing pollution and traffic in this 2nd largest city of Pakistan is an emerging problem. Local government is taking steps to make it better and the situation is quite better than it was a few years ago.

Islamabad’s view from Margalla Hills

Islamabad! Yes.. The city’s beauty is not hidden from the rest of the world as it has been announced in the list of “One of the most beautiful Capitals in the world”. Islamabad is Pakistan’s first planned city. Surrounded by mountains, the weather stays normal in summer and it gets freezy in the winter. When you are in Islamabad, you cannot say “It’s really hot in here”. If you do, you should visit Sibbi.
However, the city is quite expensive as compared to other cities of Pakistan. But if you have got some cash in your pockets, no one is stopping you.

A view of Karachi

The City of Lights – That’s what they call it. Having an immense important as the sea is connected to this city, Karachi has very much economic importance . The city lives 24 hours and people are quite active. This is the biggest city of Pakistan.
The city ,unfortunately, faced worst target killings in the last year. But after the raid by Rangers, the city has gone back to peace again.

There are other cities having immense importance as well. If you want to see the nature, you must visit Naran Kaghan Valley, Fairy Meadows, Nanga Parbat, Khunjrab and many more areas nearby. I bet you will be fascinated after what you’ll see there.

WELCOME TO PAKISTAN!!!

 

Why hair grow white in early ages?

Had a bad day at school/college/university? Having problems in your personal life? The amount of work is more than you can handle? Any one of these or related situations can cause stress. Stress is one of the largest cause of origination of permanent diseases in your body. The amount of stress you take for something is directly proportional to the side effects of it on your health. Don’t take stress now after reading this! You are accelerating it.

Reasons of growth of White hair

Have you stood in front of the mirror and noticed some grey hair growth in your head? Do you think that this is because of your stress? Actually, it’s not that much related to stress.
It can be due to genes. Someone from your mother’s side or father’s side will have white hair at his/her early age and unfortunately that has been transferred to you. Don’t curse that person, now. It’s not his/her fault.
The other reason can be that you eat a lot of fried stuff. Believe it or not, fried stuff can cause your hair grow grey. That is the experience of most of the people who have suffered from this particular thing.

If you have grown some white hair/grey hair, what can you do about it? The answer is nothing can make it grow black again. The best you can do is to leave it as it is. Ofcourse if you are very much conscious about it, dying is always an option for you. But, hair should not be died at early ages, it can effect your hair when you will get old.
The best way is to take it out of your mind. I mean, just ignore it. Praise however you look like and whatever there is on you. Besides anything, you have grown one more color on yourself.

Stay happy!

Thinking Positive: The best way to avoid life disasters

First, let me tell you background of this story. It was a start of a new year. Appraisals and Promotions are being discussed everywhere in the company I work for. I was happy. There was nothing stressful in my life. I used to do another part-time job to increase my monthly budget so that I could live easily.

And then one day, probably Monday, I woke up. I finished my chores and started getting ready to go to work. On my way to work, I got an accident. I was injured and I got depressed because of that accident. Although it was not so worse but it still made me think negative about some days ahead. I reached office. I was there and then , someone from the place where I work part-time, called me and told me that my services are no longer required by them. It made me more depressed. I was getting negative thoughts regarding my future days. Then, after some time , my senior at work told me that appraisals are not being sent due to some issue. May be, the company will not send it this year. I was shocked when I heard that. I was under so much pressure. I became pessimist. Anyhow, whatever I did that day, turned bad for me.

I came back home. I finished everything and went to bed. I lied down. Then I started thinking about what happened today. I realized something. Something that made my eyes open. I analyzed the whole situation and the conclusion that I got was so helpful ( I will tell you later , how?). All that bad things that happened today was because my thoughts became negative. My mind was not thinking positive. When I first got depressed, it attracted negative vibe and then, that negative vibe attracted more negative energy and the second bad incident happened and it went on.

After realizing that my thinking became so negative, I closed my eyes. I imagined that my brain was rusted. In my imagination , I started cleaning my brain . I cleaned and cleaned until all the rust went off. And then I started imagining the positive outcome of every situation.

The very next day , I started my day in normal routine. When I got back to office, they told me that appraisals are on their way. I found an alternative for my part-time job. And I recovered from the injuries faster than expected. In short, everything went right.

The conclusion here is that the life treats you as how you think it will. Positive thinking can really make you live in peace. The mission should not be “to survive”. The mission should be “to live”. Don’t let a bad incident or a bad thought carry you away. Even if something worse happens, just relax. Calm down. There is still something positive in it. Think about it. Block all the dark energies. Do not let them prevail you.

Note: Stories and thoughts like this are my own experiences and analysis.